Friday, January 3, 2014

January 3, 2014

Joel and Rachel arrived safely in Phoenix on December 31st and came to see dad!  It was great to have them back in the same room together.  It had been two weeks since they’d seen each other and it was time to reconnect!  We hung out for a bit and then the day got hard.

That morning, he had a follow up x-ray of his lungs.  That x-ray showed a perforation of his colon.  They did a dye contrast CT New Year’s Eve morning and that showed air in several areas of his colon.  By that afternoon, general surgeons were in the room discussing his options.  His platelets and WBC are too low for surgery.  They had a hunch a medication he was on for his ammonia level was the cause of the air getting into the bowel.  So, they decided to take him off the medication, food, and water and see if the problem could correct itself.

A couple hours later an orthopedic surgeon came in.  The CT of his bowels indicated alarming lesions on his hips.  A new x-ray was ordered for his hips and thighs.  The doctor ordered no walking or standing.  He is allowed to get up to go to the bathroom and that is all.  In a matter of just 6 hours he was pulled off food, water, and movement.  Surgery is pending.  Joel stayed the night with him at the hospital and I took Rachel to my house.

We drove back up yesterday for the follow up x-rays.  No signs of improvement or worsening.  They are in a holding pattern and watching him closely.  As soon as his blood counts get to a safe place, they will be surgically stabilizing the compromised bones areas, which also include his femur.   As far as his bowel, there isn’t much that can be done.  We are hoping it’ll pass and heal.  If it doesn’t, there may be emergency surgery.  However, the doctors aren’t pushing for it.  He wouldn’t do well in surgery right now.

He has been fine through the chemo so far.  No serious signs of any symptoms.  They have been very successful keeping all nausea at bay.  His pain is completely under control.  They did some radiation therapy on his broken arm to help manage some of that pain and he seems to be improving in that area.  The rest of the tumors that had been visible are no longer.  It has been remarkable to see them recede and his figure regain normalcy.  He is very tired and has lost a lot of weight.  His last weight was 140 pounds.

These coming days are going to be full of anxiety as we wait to see what happens.  So far, his attitude has been optimistic and positive.  He doesn’t complain at all except about being alone.  He has been very accepting of things as they come and responding as emotionally as you or I would with all of the trials that have popped up.  He is more lucid than he’s been in weeks and it’s been wonderful talking to my dad again.  He has a great sense of humor these days and he is really a delight to spend time with.

January 1, 2014, the household good arrived from La Grande, OR.  I am in total awe of the support we’ve received through the past months.  Tony Pedro is a member of my dad’s LDS ward in La Grande.  He graciously and without expectation drove his own vehicle and trailer to Sierra Vista on his own.  There are no words for how tremendous his service to my dad and family has been.  I call him Saint Tony.  Just incredible.  I don’t know a single person that would volunteer driving a 16-foot trailer through mountains of snow just because there is a need.   I am never going to forget his generosity.

In less than 45 minutes, the trailer was unloaded!  Friends and church friends were quick to help and continue to offer assistance as we all transition.  There is a need for a blog separately devoted to the individuals who have answered the calls for action.  There is much to acknowledge when people drop what they are doing just to help.

Joel and Rachel are slowly but surely settling back into Arizona.  There is a lot left to unpack and sort.  We’ll work through it.  We are going to be travelling back and forth to Phoenix quite a bit over the coming weeks.  Unless something emergent occurs with dad, the plan is to head back up next weekend.  School starts back up on Monday, and I’ll take the kids over then to get them enrolled and transferred.  Hopefully there won’t be too much of a delay getting them adjusted to Buena.  This will be fun!  Isaac, Jacob, Sam, and I are all Buena graduates.  Sarah graduated from Rio Rico High.  But this will make nearly all Russell kids graduates of Buena!  HA!

I’m running through all of the administrative aspects of life right now.  There’s a LOT to do to transfer a family from one place to another!  I haven’t moved in over a decade, so I’m unfamiliar with a lot of the little details.  I’m learning fast and making lists.  One day at a time! 

Thank you for all of your continued support and prayers.  There has been so many things developing and them deconstructing and throughout all of them, I haven’t felt burdened.  That is the result of spiritual support and knowledge that my friends and family are rallying together to make this as easy as possible.


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